I meant where you were and what you were doing new year's eve 1989. That you are befuddled by my question is a tad eerie. Still convinced you are a time-traveler.
What do you mean ended? I know almost exactly. My husband and I were just about finished an 11 year lease on a little "mom and pop" greasy spoon. My children were about 8 and 11. It was a 7 day a week gig and pretty much hell.