Just ask him, cut the Bs and tell him you both need the truth.

^ yeah that will work perfectly :rolleyes:

Have you ever heard of liars before?

Oh you poor kid...

Yeah....men.......we're a pretty sad lot.
We screw up all the time. But sometimes its for a reason. If he's cheating on you and you need to break it off and end up hating his guts forever then that's probably what would have eventually happened anyway.
You can't change that.
I'm only sorry that you've put in so much time. He'll probably hate himself for all of this and for wasting your time as well. Even when we screw things up beyond belief we usually aren't doing it just to be evil. You've been with him this long; you probably know him very well. If he's never been abusive in any way then this is just his heart changing.
We can be very apologetic. Don't allow this to cloud your judgement. Ask directly, then get the fuck outta there! If he's cheating now (he probably is) then you guys just weren't meant to be. I can't tell you how sorry I am for you.

Now go. Ask. Now.

you know... ;) fond of her ;) ;)

Thank you so much for your input. Well, for all ya'lls input really!

how long has it been going on?

personally i think you should ask him whats up, and if you dont like the reply just slice his hand off and sell it on e-bay
just a suggestion

about two months now

If you happen to find a bed full of already-been-used condoms and a girls panties that arent yours.......you should be able to tell.

Well of course, I do give him credit, he ain't that stupid ..............I don't think???:confused: