I honestly believe that woman can never truly be friends with each other, they are way too competative, and are always doing shit like this. 'If your my friend youll break up with him' If she truly wants to be with you she will tell her friend where to go. 10 years from now you will probably have dated as many girls, it isnt worth the petty BS>

she isnt breaking up with me cause the fact i slept with someone b4 her its the fact that i did it with no condom and havent got checked out...and i could be sick for all she knows

Herpes would've shown up by now, as well as any NOTICABLE STDs. If you don't know if you have AIDS or something, use a condom with her! Your woman needs to be tought some sex ed shit...

Oh, and chances are if you and that girl were both 14, chances are she probably didn't have anything unless she did it with other guys before you.

Doubtful, Yea I know HIV is a bad thing and AIDS and all, but for a guy who is a heterosexual non IV drug user at your age is so slim you have a better chance of winning the lottery. But by all means if you feel that strongly about it get tested.

i hear ya i totally hear ya......where do i go to get checked out....the doctors?? and can i go alone with out an adult without ppl finding out?

You can do it privately, just call your local clinic and make an appointment, it should take no longer than 20 minutes.

go to your dr and it should b confedential so i don't think any one will find out. its better to b safe then sorry

its not that i feel that i have it but its just i wanna prove her wrong so she will say sorry and get back with me....cause i dont think i have it either....i was 14....and it wasnt like 30 min sex it wasnt long at all

LMAO!