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I'd make sure you're ready to settle down before marriage... 18 relationships this year and you were engaged? Don't add to the divorce rate...

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Originally posted by VampiricClown
Haha, We aren't going to get married for two years. The only reason we're engaged is so that we will remember that we have someone to turn to when things get rough and will always remember that we belong to someone. Try harder to make things work than being in a normal relationship and being able to get out of it just like that when we get mad.

It makes you stop and think for a bit.

I don't want to sound mean, but you said it would make you try harder than in a normal relationship, but yet she broke up with you without hardly blinking an eyelash when things got rough. I'm glad you guys got back together, but I hope she doesn't continue fucking with your emotions like that. It's good that you're not getting married for a couple of years and I truly do hope things work out, but Iaaaahhhh'm gonna just shut up now. Take care and be careful VC, OK? Don't like seeing ya get hurt.

What exactly do you consider a relationship? Because 18 in a year barely gives you 2 weeks per.

It seems like it's the same girl, over and over.
Ah, youth.

I don't have the patience for relationships like that. If we break up, you might get one chance. After that, forget it. It's not supposed to be a game, but I guess sometimes it takes a while to figure that out.

You need to remember that LOVING someone doesn't necessarily mean NEEDING them. Why the hell would you stay miserable when there's no upside to it? Sex and companionship are two things that there's always an excess of.... why make something permanent if it's obviously so shaky in the first place? It's like building a house on a Jell-o mold.

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Originally posted by Miss Olivia
I don't have the patience for relationships like that. If we break up, you might get one chance. After that, forget it. It's not supposed to be a game, but I guess sometimes it takes a while to figure that out.

ditto. :p

Listen, VC. Trust should always be stronger than love. How can you trust her to love you when she can't make up her own damn mind??? Be careful. You have a whole website looking out for you, but you still make your own mistakes.

If she does this kinda thing every month, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with her? She seems flighty to me.

My mom pointed out a really good point to me too. She'll find it hard to be with you when she can't share all of her heart with you. God is now in her heart, and may be a big part of it soon. If she can't share it, then 1 of two thingscan happen:

a) you two will grow more and more apart emotionally until your miserable and break up

or

b) you two will constantly bicker about religion as your doing now, and it's just one subject that could be avoided, but constantly comes up.

kk, I'm done. :D