Look into places online. I imagine there would be something you can find.

See I'm uncomfortable with using online services because it is so easy for anybody to lie about who they really are on the internet and I don't want to get scammed or meet a dangerous person. ::EEK!::

No I don't mean like that. I mean go to Google and search for places you would want to go to meet people. I don't do online dating myself because the two girls I have met and banged those turned out to be total psychos.

I suppose I will also contribute to the zeitgeist.

Oh I understand now lol. ::big grin::

I might post another picture of myself once I loose more weight. My goal is to reach 180 pounds. ::smile::

I like your hair like this!

thank you! I have actually gotten a lot of compliments since I got it cut And I like it as well. I mean I like long hair but for one thing it's very hot in Las Vegas and having long hair is not very fun in the desert and I just feel like this style fits my facial structure better than when I had long hair.

Hammer is right. It looks very nice like that.

Aww shucks ladies... ::big grin::

I need a haircut lol. I actually prefer my hair shorter but I haven't had a chance to go to a barber in awhile. ::big grin::

Maybe when I get my hair cut I'll post another picture? ::smile::

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Finally got a haircut and I decided to do this picture without my glasses. ::smile::

The hair is too uniform. Aim to grow the top and/or front out a bit.
So says Cheeba

Looking good, kiddo!

Pretty sure I know what your shirt is referring to! ::love::

Cheeba's talkin' about growin' a mullet, don't do it!

Haha thanks guys. ::smile::

I would never do a mullet lol but I think maybe I do look better with slightly longer hair. It's just that it takes me a long time to make a trip to the barber so when I go to get a haircut I ask them to chop it all down so that I won't have to go back for another haircut for awhile. ::big grin::

And Bloof my Tshirt is actually a Golden Girls reference. Do you like that show too? ::cool::

Jesus Christ, no! ::big grin::

Yep, i knew it! You've talked about it before. I did enjoy it back in the day. My sister and i picture ourselves living like them someday,

I wish I could have had Dorothy, Rose, Blanche, and Sophia as my grandmothers! I know this sounds very mean but my real grandparents all sucked as grandparents. ::big grin::

HaHAha HOW?

...hello ladies! ::danger::

Looks a lot like my body except my hair is more on my belly and my nipples. ::big grin::

That's what kind of a good mood being stoned and getting a shower will put you in

I guess no one really got the joke but it was a Val venis thing if anyone used to watch wrestling. He would come to the ring wrapped in a towel and would say that..

Well I once shared a picture of my hairy ass on Facebook. I wasn't stoned but I was feeling really manic and didn't care. ::stick out tongue::

Yeah well this isn't my ass lol

I hope I can loose enough weight and exercise enough to look really handsome one day so that maybe I can find someone to be in a relationship with.

You guys don't think that's shallow do you?

You're not shallow but its a shame you think thats the only way to get a guy. From your post you seem like a decent person. But i know in this awesome world of ours that looks do make a difference but they dont necessarily seal the deal. ::cool::

Yeah I think you're right. I guess I just feel insecure about myself because I really have no experience at all with dating or looking for potential dates. ::embarrassment::

Rollin' top down? Bruh...they musta gave you mood enhancers instead a stabilizers.

I wish happy pills worked this well. ::big grin::


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Either way I don't care. I am starting to feel happy again. I tell my grandpa this all the time, this move has saved my life. And as you can see between being happier and being in a place like this, I am starting to build new found confidence.

I am really happy for you man and I mean that! :)

I feel like I would be a lot happier with myself if I could just move away from my Mom but it will take time. I can't just up and leave because I have no way of transportation and I can't work because I would loose my disability benefits and in order to get my benefits I need somebody like my Mom to be my payee.

I know my Mom loves me but I don't think it was right for her to keep me from growing up for so long just because of my disabilty. There are plenty of people with Aspergers and Bipolar Disorder who do an OK job of taking care of themselves.

Gah Oh my God I'm gonna have to actually play forum dad...

I just saw some of the pictures and conversation.

I wanted to step in and say, don't make your perception/attractiveness to others be your driving factor in getting fit, losing weight, making changes.
This is gonna sound like a line but honestly - if you focus on getting yourself fit and above all HEALTHY you'll live better, you'll move better, you'll be stronger and the stuff that kind of happens on auto pilot inside your head when this is all taking place...that will make changes to your personality, how you carry yourself, confidence levels etc.

I'm married. let myself go a lot, for a long time...right now I have a shitload of weight I need to drop...and I know how hard it seems...though I also know how easy it actually is. I've knocked off weight before, and trust me...most of it is the psychological battle you wage against "lazy you", which is a big part of us all.

You just need to be patient. Don't hop on the scales all the time. Don't worry about the numbers, the times, anything like that - just worry about the things you have to do.

Eat right. Cut the shit you know you shouldn't eat/drink by at least 80%. Super fatty, deep fried foods. Foods that are high in sugar. Night snacks (after dinner just keep it light...if you eat while bored - take a walk) and lots of bread and/or processed food are bad things.
Keep it fresh.
Introduce fish to your diet. Eat salad even if you don't like it.
Don't kill your vegetables - just give them a steam or a blanch.
Learn how to make some seasoning mixes and dressings.

I've been making some changes with the wife over the last week...she's been smashing it...I'm actually on day today 1 of re-attending gym (later tonight) and the "full" diet.
Nutella had to go. Takeaway food. Chocolate. Biscuits/cookies. Ice Cream. Soda. Definitely soda. Gah. Save more money on this shit than I'm spending on gym.

You guys can do it...and it's way easier physically than it is mentally...you just need to retrain how you think when it comes to this stuff. Many people do.
Just make sure the number one person you do it for is you (and yknow maybe your future generations). The physical stuff becomes habitual. Just get yourself to do it. Once you've started it's easy.

Good luck. We're in this together.

Actually the real reason I'm needing to loose weight is because of some health problems I have been having lately but it also makes me feel good to look good. ::wink::

Then fuck that shit up, you'll do it easy.

I have already went from 250 pounds to 205 pounds. ::cool::

Unfortunetly my protein levels are dropping. ::sad::

Cheebs, I'm using you and Spal as inspiration. You know, since you're older than the kids. ::big grin::

I've needed to drop weight for a few years now, since they told me I'm diabetic and have high blood pressure. Changing your eating habits is very hard mentally. In fact, my doctor had suggested I see a therapist for my "food issues".

I know what I need to do, I just need to get in the right mental status and get it done. Shit, quitting smoking was easier than this.

I used to have the hardest time with dieting but once I had gallbladder surgery and found out that I had a fatty liver and would end up getting cirrosis before 50 it became easier for me to force myself into eating healthier. I don't want my neice growing up without her uncle. :(

At this time 6 years ago I weighed 350 lb. I now weigh 200 lb. I had gastric bypass but I have also worked very hard. I still have a gut on me but I have dropped so much weight And it has helped me so much health-wise and it has done a lot for my confidence.

when I decided to get the surgery I Did It For My Health. Now I work out also for my health and As I said before, it helps me build confidence. I know looks do matter When it comes to finding people attractive. It has nothing to do with being shallow, it's just what attracts you. It's not your fault and it's not their fault. I know I'm not the prettiest thing out there but I also know I'm not the ugliest thing out there but With that said, I'm not really a random hookup kind of guy anyway. I mean I would do it, I have done it, it's just that Isn't really my thing, I'd rather be having sex in a meaningful relationship. In a place like Las Vegas there are lots of choices for men and women and with my looks aside, I just feel like I don't have the proper Mojo or social skills to
Pick up women. For the time being I am just trying to focus on me And work on the things I need to work on and then maybe next year when I start back the college I can meet someone and see what happens from there.

::confused::::big grin:: uhh yeah thanks fer the diet tips Cheeba...but I think Risers already way past all that. I was just funnin' man, you lookin' sharp..
Social skills? Keep workin' on those cuts and ya won't need too many anyway.
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