Hi, I'd like to know something.
 

I really have no clue what people think about me here. It is always nice to know if everybody hate your guts, or like you for you.

I always try to keep an open mind, but I realize that I come off as a little naive sometimes. I'm a child at heart, so I guess that is why I find the joy in many things that people often dismiss as being too juvenile.

I don't know if these kind of threads are allowed, but I'd like to know what people think of me - so I can improve on myself.



:)

Well i dont know u exactly but this what
i have learned about the members in here.
Be yourself.
thats all others ask.
Threads like this normally scream ..
OH NOES..ANOTHER ATTENTION SEEKER.!

if ure happy with the way you are..then
so be it. :D

Re: Hi, I'd like to know something.
 

I think you're cool. But a few of the regular members think you're a ego maniac, who tries to always bring the topic of converstation around to herself. I told them thats a lie she isn't like that at all.. but then they all said you was a dickhead and logged off my yahoo.

Re: Hi, I'd like to know something.
 

don't know you, haven't conversed with you in any way and probably never will



welcome to the collective mass of the forum




[IGNORE]

Jesus Loves You.

Everyone Else Thinks You're a Cnut.

:p

I know this threads screams "attention" but it's not really what I had in mind. If everybody is talking trash behind your back, you're usually the last person to know.

I didn't know that a couple of the regulars in-here thought of me as being, you know, self-centered.

Please, people, if you have something you want to say to me, say it to me directly. I hate all this "snooping-around-behind-my-back" thing. I think it is utterly childish, and we are after all adults.

I can not improve on myself, unless people tell me what is bothering them.

:)

I suggest you become more aloof and sarcastic right this instant.

Paranoia?
Or CONSPIRACY???
I like you so far....Of course, I don't know you at all.:)

You seem pretty cool to me. At first I thought you were a girl, but now I know you're a guy, and a good looking one at that. I mean that. Although I'm a bit of a flirt, I'm TOTALLY harmless, just like to joke around and that's one of my ways of kidding around with people. But anyway, I mean that as a compliment, nothing else, so don't freak out about it OK.

I haven't talked to you much but you seem friendly and I haven't really noticed any self-centered BS coming from you.

About the people talking behind your back, if people do, maybe it's good stuff, you never know. I personally haven't heard anything either way about you. But really, there's nothing you can do about it. If you don't like that , don't contribute to it when you hear other people do it about someone else. Treat other people the way you'd like to be treated and hope that Karma or whatever takes care of the rest.

Relax, and hang on to that childlike part of yourself. Don't ever let that die! But, I've kinda told you that before, haven't I. :)

LOL...as you can see..
if somebody in here has something to say to or about you..
THEY SAY IT..!!!

well, the only thing I can say that may help is this:

If you really care what people think about you, then you'll never be happy with yourself. There's to many types of people to be able to please them all. Even here at HDC there are all types of people. I know most of them probably hate me, but the only thing I can say is you have plenty of time to become who you want to become. Experience has a big influence on your personality. Your only 19, live a little and listen to what Monalisa said. :D

Oh, and its great that you want to improve yourself. :p Try to invision what you want to be like, or what you think are good traits that people can possess. Then try to figure out how to make yourself like that. It's harder than it looks. :p

Wow...you're a guy?

are you that desperate for everyones approval! you just need to worry about yourself fuck what everee one else thinks about you cause in the end it's you that your gonna have to deal with when you look in the mirror!

Don't know, really don't know much about anyone in here. I do know that this sites pretty cool, and if ppl don't like you..fuck em. The only approval you need is your own..(and sometimes your boss's, maybe your parents..)

Well...There ya go...Who cares what other people think?...Just be you, and have a good time


BTW...SOME of the responses to you here were just a joke...You have to learn not to take anything too seriously...Especially HERE ;)

Thats not true...we are ALWAYS serious here.:mad:

HaHa...I can't imagine YOU being serious...A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E

it drives my wife crazy:D

Why do people seek approval from a message board? I just don't get it:confused:

attention lacked elsewhere i guess!

:(

That´s so sad..

Re: Re: Hi, I'd like to know something.
 

LMMAO


Cheeba?

How can Katrina be a guy?

First of all, Katrina is a girls name, right?

Second, Katrina sounds like "he" has a personality like a sensitive, insecure bimbo. No offence.







And yes, I´m still single.;) :D

There is an odd reference to self abuse in another thread and plenty of smut, but I'm not sure there has been enough seething profanity so far - so time will tell.

Katrina is the name of a movie character he likes. Personally, I fucking hate that name, but that's for a totally different reason.

I don't seek approval, it's just nice to know what people think of you -- good or bad. Do I care what people think of me? OF COURSE I DO, but that doesn't make me an "insecure bimbo" as ENTITY2000 so firmly put it.

Am I wimpy for caring for people think of me? I don't think so. I am not going to apologize for caring about my self-image, and what people think of me.

I am very contempt with my life; I have a good job and I enjoy myself. I am this way with my co-workers as well, I always ask them if I am doing something that's bothering them, and they always level with me.

:)

So you'd conform to please someone else rather than just be yourself?

I could see if you were with a girl and you guys have a good relationship and lets say she gets irritated when you...I don't know, crack your knuckles or something. Changing that is completely understandable, but I'd never change myself to make some guy at work happier or to please somebody on a message board.

It might sting a little finding out somebody has a problem with you or even hates you, but if you act this way around certain people to make them happy and another way around a different group of people to make them happy ect. ect. You'll end up forgetting who the hell you were to begin with and spend your life making other people happy. Some people are gonna be cool with and some aren't, that's just how it works.

unless of course you are a monkey at which point people simply heap adoration and admiration upon you without reservation . . . it just goes with having a tail!

Shh...He can't help it...He has a Cancer moon...I looked it up (because I suspected either Cancer or Libra) ;)


And...You and I could NEVER understand that way of thinking...

Wait, I'm confused, how can he have a Cancer moon if his birthday is in January? July is Cancer. That's what I am (oh, dear God). :)

MOON....Cancer is your sun sign...His sun sign is Capricorn....Your moon infuences your emotional state...The way that the actual moon controls the tides...Know what I mean?


I would tell you YOUR moon sign...But...I don't know what year you were born :)

But why is another name for a Cancer person (Cancerian?) "Moon Child"? Forgive my ignorance, but I have only a teeny bit of understanding of this.

All signs have a ruling planet...BUT...Cancer is ruled by the moon...That makes Cancer more emotional than any other sign...Different phases of the moon can greatly affect how a Cancer feels...And, Cancers feel everything more deeply than any other sign...They also tend to be self-conscious, and insecure (like Libras) which is why i figured Katrina had either a Cancer or Libra moon...His sun sign isn't like that, so I figured it had to be coming from SOMEWHERE....Usually, if something doesn't fit your sun sign (the sign that most people are familiar with), you can "blame it on the moon"...:)

@Mona....You have an Aquarius moon...This would help to keep your emotions from getting the best of you (you'll still have your moments though...Cancer emotions are very strong)...Because...Aquarians are cerebral, they approach things logically, and Aquarians want to know everything about anything they're interested in...They aren't overly emotional...That's a pretty good balance of sun and moon signs :)

Thanks Rayne. Both of your last posts do describe me pretty well. Cool, that's interesting. Thanks again! :)

No problem...It's actually fun for me :)

I've actually never heard of the moon sign. Is it sorta like the chinese zodiac? And if you think its fun, then could you hook me up??? :D

Nope...Nothing like the Chinese zodiac...It's actually quite common, goes right along with your sun sign...It's just not as influential on your overall personality as your sun sign, so it's not nearly as important and is therefore, often overlooked or just neglected....However, if there is an anomaly in your personality based on your sun sign, the moon is the first thing that's looked at for some explanation (such as, where something comes from that shouldn't be there, or why something might be suppressed or missing)...

You have an Aries moon...But, your sun sign is Capricorn...So...You would be a bit more defensive than the average Capricorn...A little more likely to 'stir things up' (or just keep them going)...And more stubborn, too ;)

Wow, thats me. Thanks. :p I love learning new things. I'm going to be busy studying this. Fun! :D