What a crappy day.
 

I had the worst day to day.First I get my hours cut back at work to almost nothing.So I don't know how I'm gonna make my car payments.Then to top it off I find out later that my dad is cheating on my mom.She doesn't know it yet but I'm gonna tell her after I get some more facts.My Mom doesn't deserve this.She's the most kind and caring person in the world.She would do anything for any one and she waits on my dad hand and foot and does whatever he say's.
So I found out where this skank whore bag lives and went and confronted her about it and she acted like she didn't know what I was talking about.But I let her know that I know and she better stay away from my sperm donor piece of shit father.I'm sure after I left she called my dad and told him what happend.Now I waiting to see if he call's me and ask's me about it.I got a feeling the shit's gonna hit the fan tonight and I might go to jail for beating my dad to a pulp.


Sorry to vent on you guy's like this but I just had to get it out.

don't do anything stupid dude, try and let them sort it!

Well dude, that sucks. But if I know anything about life, it has its ups and it has its downs. But the downs have a purpose, to make the ups that much better. I know it sucks now, but it will all work itself out. You may not like the outcome but that happens. The most that you can do is be there for your mother. If you do beat the shit outa your father, he definatly deserves it. But, what you need to do is sit down, and think about what the best action to take for your problems are. Because if you just go at it without thinking, then more than likely its going to end up worse. In the end, its all up to how you react to your problems thats gonna determin wether the outcome will be good or bad.

All in all, I'm sorry to hear about all this, and I hope that everything works out in the good for you and your mother.

Sorry to hear about your troubles, hope everything works out ok in the end.
I think some of us are pretty fortunate in that we have pretty easy lives with no major upsets. I can't say I know how you feel, coz I don't, just guessing.

About 5 years back my brother and I had a major fight. He had a bit of a drink problem which resulted him in becoming very abusive and agressive to the rest of the family. It all came to a head when one New Years' Eve, he and I went for each other - I did't drink that much back then, even less now. Anyway it resulted in me grabbing a kitchen knife and holding it up to my brother's throat. The words I used then are still pretty clear after 5 years, " If I should twitch, you'll be dead, let's hope I don't twitch".

My mother and father where there at the time and had to calm me down. They later told me that they had to forceably remove the knife from my fingers, as my hands where tight shut, with white knuckles showing.

My brother has not touched a drop of alcohol in over 4 years now, and surprisingly or not we actually have sorted out all our differences - I'm even his kids godfather, but it's something that I'm very aware of. To get angry at a stranger is one thing, but to want to kill one of your "own" is not worth thinking about.

You and your mum are the most important one's here, and you'll need every inch of each others' strength to come out of this. Your mum will need you now more than ever as the "man" of the house.


Everyone's here for you.

all the best

Make your own judgements, let things run their course of give your dad what's coming to him. But think of all possible consequences. Your mum doesn't deserve you being in prison either.

Wow...crappy is an understatement.

Gotta agree with Disease. Your mom is going to need you.

I have become more than a little familiar with that empty, hopeless feeling you get in your situation, freak. I found out that my entire family could give or take me, my wife AND my daughter for all they cared. They wouldnt drive 20 minutes out of there way to stop by and say hi, they wanted us to stop by there place so they wouldnt be put out.


This was after we were treated like we werent there and our problems were no big deal a couple of months before. There was rampant flooding all around New Hampshire, and we had to evacuate our house, and I was unemployed. We got no sympathy, no consideration, and we even got shit when we asked if they would help us out and buy us a pack-and-play for the baby since she had nowhere to sleep. I guess holing up your kid and his family for a couple of days should be enough, but damnit if we couldnt fit the baby's crib in the back of a fucking car.

so we found other accomodations right away and left. Turns out that hurt their feelings. Boo fucking hoo.

I havent spoken to my family in over a year, and have been better off for it. You are much better off telling him to stay out of your life than beating him.

Make it good and official, say it in front of people, or in an email, or something traceable. That way, if he decides to try and kiss your ass or harass you, you can get even more satisfaction by suing him for harrasment, or getting a restraining order.

Same goes for your mom. The legal system hurts way more than fists. :)

Coincidentally, I know a kid who's in jail for beating the shit out of his dad. Don't go that route, really.

Ok so me and my dad sat down and had a talk.He did just like I thought he would and denied everything.Said him and this girl where just freinds and tried to act like he was my best buddy.In a way I wanna believe him cause he's my dad, but in another way I dont just casue there's a lot of evidence against him.So for now I'm just going to sit back and wait and see what develops.

Good decision. Be cool, give him a chance, make sure you've got the facts.
And good luck, man, I hope everything works out alright.

Damn Freak, sounds like one of those days you wish life had a rewind button.
Keep your head up bro. :cool:

i think even if you have all the evidence you whould tell him you have proof and tell him to fess up. It'll be better for your mom to hear it from him.

if you don't mind me asking, what is the evidence?

I am so sorry Freak, I really am.

Please don't tell your mom though, I could try and explain it from a woman's point of view... but it's complicated.
Tell your dad to grow the fuck up and then leave it be- he probably knows by now how little you respect him and even though he will probably never admit it- it hurts him.


As far as the other woman is concerned, I have some some truly evil ways to get back at her and it's all legal:D

He tried to lie about it but I'm not sure if I'm buying it yet.

What are these evil pay back's you speak of?

Nope I don't mind at all.

Basically it boils down to a massive list of phone records of calls back and forth between them for hours on end.He has been seen leaving that house at all hours of the night and was even chased away by the ladies ex husband.His sudden drop in extra money, and from what I hear it's to supply her drug habit.They haven't been seen actually doing anything yet.

Ever since this happend he has been acting like he's my best buddy in the world.

I say, you should buddy up with him so he think's everything is cool and then catch him in the act. Plus you can probably milk it until you do.

Sounds like a lot of speculation. Don't start shit until you can prove shit. Not that you shouldn't be on guard but we all know what happens when you assume.

The dead come back and feast on our flesh? Seems kinda harsh...

hmmmm. Are you sure they arent just friends and her ex thought the same as you. Probably not, but he's your dad. Give him the benefit of the doubt.

I'll PM you when I have the time to sit down for more than a few minutes;)

More great news for me.


I've been having headaches for about a week now and I went to the doctor today.At first I thought it might be a sinus problem.But then my doctor notices my cadaracts(not sure about the spelling on that) and thinks that might have something to do with it.

So I call the eye doctor and the earliest they can get me in is Nov. 1st which really sucks.So now I have to wait almost a month to get looked at and have to joy of horrible headaches to look forward to til then.The doctor gave me loritab's to help with the pain but I don't know how much that will help.

I wonder what layer is going to be added to the big crap sandwich that is my life next?

eyes and headaches seem to be linked a lot...

I get migraines, generally behind my eye.....

Most physical pain is the body's way of screaming at you when mentally or spiritually you're in crisis.

me too. I thought it was just eye strain, went to the opticians; needed to wear glasses, ok fair enough, but I still get migraines. Usually on a weekend.
I've sometimes went to bed, eventually falling asleep only to wake up, still with a headache.

I had an MRI scan done twice, nothing out of the ordinary.

*though there seemed to be a big gaping hole were my brain should be*

It's probably a tumor that can't be seen by normal scans and only when it grows to the point of being noticed, it's just too late and you have like 2 days to live:D

I've had them since I was about ten, I got glasses but hardly where them, they are for distance and my eyes realy aren't that bad... but I have good methods for migraine relief... first of all depending on the weather, have a realy hot cup of tea or cold ice cream, then a realy hot shower. Mainly run the water over you're head, drop some pain killers and have a cigaret, then lay down completley still while you are still red from the shower and let a fan blow on you... very soothing, and put on some smog or Codine or some other music which just takes energy away... then you can always have a wank... that should do it!

:D

I once finished a box of paracetemol in one night because of the headache, probably explains the gap in the scan - it dissolved.

I got headaches a lot before I got my glasses. So if you need glasses, look on the upside... I find guys with glasses VERY sexy. ;)

People do tend to find people who look like them more attractive...:p

makes total sense :rolleyes:

especially considering I just got my glasses this year but have had a thing for nerds since I stopped finding guys icky.

When was that, this year sometime?

I've noticed that the headaches are worse when I'm around bright lights.Just a little bit ago I was outside for a little while talking to a friend and it was pitch black outside and the headaches seemed to stop for a little while.

I would say stress related migraines, but I'm not doctor.

@Disease: yeah, february this year. All the so called guys a I dated before then were pretty girly.

Right now, have a right stinker of a headache, seem to get one nearly every weekend.

Don't drink much, so its not a hangover. Don't eat the usual suspects ie cheese or chocolate. Been to the doctors about it in the past, probably a migraine, great well, what's the cure - painkillers, brilliant. Have used both over the counter and prescription only pills, still haven't found one that takes away the pain entirely.

On the box it says 1-2 every 4 hours. No, 2-3 every 2 hours more-like.

Sitting in the dark doesn't help.

Maybe Novakru was right - brain tumour. :(

God, I hope not!!
I was just being facetious:(

Its Ok, so was I, I think .... :(

I won't mention it again, tempting fate a little too much.

It's just strange it always seems to be on a weekend - maybe I'm allergic to Saturday and Sunday - though funnily enough that's when my neices come over, maybe I'm allergic to them. :D

My mum got a headache yesterday. We found out today it's a brain hemerage.

Like I said, won't mention my headaches now; for obvious reasons.

Sorry Ferret.

I don't mind talking about it. It's good to let it out.