I think it's over
 

My relationship with my parents has finally snapped.... I don't really know what else to say. It's finally gone off the deep end. Me and my mom had a huge fight and she wants nothing more to do with me. my dad and me never get along anyway. I just feel like the most misunderstood person. No one ever really gets to know me, so no one really knows what's going on. It's like everything came crashing down all at once, and i can't do a thing about it.

Sad to hear, Posh.

I think it's time to move out of your parents basement.

I haven't even moved out for college yet. I'm speechless. This is insanity.

I remember moving out did wonders for my relationship with my parents.

That's just not how I want it to go

Well, how DO you want it?

I'd just like things to work out for once, instead of spiraling out of control like everything that's happened in the past 6 months.

Same here,well I always got along with my parents.I fucked up for a while prtying raving etc...from about 15-20,finally got my shit togtehr feelings were stiull hurt on there side,but as soon as I moved out,when I was 24 shit got a lot better.We have always had a great relationship, and since I moved out it got back to were it used to be.

Im very glad for it, cause I love my parents to death,they are great people.Moving ot definitly helps.But im sure there are 2 sides to this story.Cause he hasnt given any details,so how can anyone be of any help.

I'm truly sorry to hear that.I know we haven't talked alot lately.But you can IM me.Or call me after 9 and vent.I hope things get better for you.I wish you the best.

Shit...sorry to hear that.

What was the fight about?

I know exactly how you fell Posh my parents and I are in the exact same spot.we and my dad are constantly getting into fights.the other day we almost got into a fist fight.

Me missing a dentist appointment. and now i'm getting kicked out? Anyone else agree with me? What the hell is this?

Dont take any rash decisions. You might regret it later.

Chill out for a few, then talk the matter over with your Mom. Usually in a fierce argument or fight, a lot of words escape from mouths which are said without any real thinking behind it. Later on when you sit down and ponder over those moments again, you either feel bad/guilty or regret about speaking before thinking.

Same with your Mom too. Remember, she is going through this difficult phase of her own life also (I remember you telling me about your Dad and the shit between you both). Sure, she might have said something in severe short temper and in the heat of the moments, but I have a gut feeling she needs you right now more than either of you realise it. Give her a chance, and your relationship with her might improve, at least a tad bit.

The time to move out will come eventually. Just dont rush it. I know you are a good guy and you love your Mom to death, and I am sure you wont take any decisions without thinking the matter over. Also, once college starts, its a whole different life altogether and that will make moving out that much easier.

I say...chill out for a bit, let Mom simmer down too and after some time, talk things over with her in a fair, level-headed normal way. Time heals the worst of wounds and the best of hearts, so give the whole situation some...time.

All the best. Hope the situation gets resolved in everyone's favor, especially yours.

Now THERE's a pal, Posh. :p

It's ok, she's just afraid to show emotion because she doesn't want to seem vulnerable. You aren't the only one of your kind Rory ;)

sorry to hear that Posh'

Maybe one day when things settle down , you could all sit down.
take the initiative and discuss what the real problem is between you all.
I hope things work out for you.

Teenagers needs space, teenagers takes space.

That's a common problem.

I'm sorry to hear that Posh. Like everybody has said, its probably best to just leave them alone for a while, and calm yourself down, then try to approach them calmly. Or you cold always do what I do, and just avoid everybody.

Yet you're still here, bothering us. What's up with that? ;) :D

Hope things look up soon. I think __V__'s advice got it in a nutshell. And if you make the first move, your mum might soften a bit. Once again, hope things look up.

Now THAT made me feel better

You know me. I make people feel good about themself.

That's why i'm here. :cool:


Hail satan

You'll make someone a very happy man someday :)

I think most people go through it, unless they move out sooner then their parents would like. Anyway, you should move out with some friends so that rent doesn't kill you while you're going to school.

Also get a part-time job. ;)

your parents will love you again, don't worry.

You really think so? :)

Oh happy day

The thing you probably don't realize is...you are a complete product of your parents fucking up the job of raising you....and they KNOW it.

..and I don't want to hear it's NOT the parent...enough of that bullshit.

I AM TIRED OF hearing these whiny ass adults bitching about, "I don what to do...."
Fuck that shit.

They should have yanked their bratty asses out of the store when they threw a tantrum the FIRST time at age 2, and then proceeded from there to not allow them to Rule Your House...dipshits:rolleyes:

We parents are the BACKBONE of our children, no matter what adversities they may have naturally or enviromentally...it's OUR FUCKING job to protect them, love them, and smack their ass when they fail but pull them up at the same time.
It's our job to teach them to be good humans:)

Are you a mom to a teenager yourself?

My daughter is turning 10 at the end of August and she has spent a good chunk of valuable summertime in her room.
( and I am not one of those parents who let them have TV'S, computers, cell phones and other nonsense that makes grounding to there room 'Fun'.:mad: )

I swear if this is a preview of what's to come...oh dear lord save me.:(







I have a plan though...it involves duct tape:cool:

Yeah...


I honestly don't think it's easy parenting a teenager. It's not easy for the teenager as well. It's a very difficult time. The most difficult time, i'm sure.

If the family were a boat, it would be a canoe that makes no progress unless everyone paddles. Letty Cottin Pogrebin

Aunt Dolly's right, Posh. ;)
I moved out when I was 18....after that my Mom and I became close again. She actually told me I could move back in after about a year...but I never did....and I'm now 33.

You say that as if it was a direct effect of moving out...

Why did you miss your dentist appointment?

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be a good boy and brush your teeth and everything will get better.

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