depressed and need help
 

im going to try this for like the 4th time iv'e tried posting and it keeps reseting on me........ugh.

ok well my first boyfriend broke up with me the other day and i feel like he is lying about the reasons why or not telling me all the reasons. I still love him even though he said he dosn't love me.Well plus he would be having to move out of town. That might be one of the reasonsl,but no matter what the reasons.I still see no reason in breaking my heart the way he did. I still wouldnt of been able to see him alot anyways.

Plus im feeling really sick to my stomach, I think it might be from crying my eyes out.

well today im hanging out with friends i havn't hung out in a while.Were gonna watch movie's,hopefully some good horror movies my friend said she has a bunch of classic movies.

But if anyone has any other suggestions please let me know.

Thank you!

I have major depressive disorder, so don't feel so alone. I know how you feel. It sucks.

How can we help? :confused:

I just had my husband of nine years have an affair and then ask for a divorce.I am so deep in depression it would take a fucking dozer to dig me out.I know what its like to have your heart broke:(I wish i could give you advice,but i can't even help myself.Everyday i cry my eyes out.Sorry to see you go through this:(

Ending a long term relationship is a loss similar to having someone close pass away, it needs to be mourned so cry, scream etc. and know that it will pass.

I don't know if there is anyway to respond that doesn't sound cliche or crass.

It sucks but it can and must be endured.

a weekend with me is the cure for depression.

no wait - it's the cause.


nevermind.

I think hanging out with your friends is definitely a good thing. Surround yourself with things that make you smile and laugh. And keep in mind there are billions of men in the world...and if you decide to swear off men, there are billions of women too :-D

let me know if you need a photographer

he's speaking of course about teenager syndrome which effects 100% of people between the ages of 13 and 19

MEN....hurmph:mad:

such bastards


I would go with the girl on girl thing



and blog about it....on this site

And be very descriptive.

You're silly. So you're saying that there's absolutely... nothing wrong with you?

I'm old and cynical, been through the major depression thing and recently finally got out of a 12 year long unhealthy relationship. Hate to tell you, but this is not the last time you'll get your heart broken. It happens to both women and men.

Learn from your mistakes but DON'T let him get away with blaming you for the breakup if he tries to do that. Hanging out with your friends is a definate good thing to do. Take care of yourself, force yourself to if necessary. If you feel shitty physically, it will only compound the depression.

It will get better! Get a dog or cat if you don't already have one (personally I would recommend a small white fuzzy dog, but that's just me). And keep talking to people. I became a bit of a recluse for a while, and even though somethimes you may need to do that for a while, don't do it for too long or it adds to the problem (the depression).

Take care and feel free to PM me if ya want.

The photo thread would be a great place to start...

Cold, hard facts
You will feel like you are dying and then in about 6 months to a year you will be ok, but scarred.

Do us all a favor and do not take it out on the next guy and do not let it change the good in you.
Most importantly, Do Not Take Revenge.

I have found that if you allow yourself to grieve and turn negative thoughts about the person into energy toward a goal that interests you...it makes the whole 'what goes around comes around' theory kick into action.
Trust me sweetie, he WILL go through something like this in his lifetime and WILL think about the people he did this to and if he isn't a sociopath, he WILL feel remorse.



There is no relief from this pain except thru time and I KNOW how that sounds.

Take really good care of yourself,be kind to YOU, you have just broken something valuable.

i think the bottom line is - if you are completely unable to find happiness ever ... see a doctor. you have a chemical problem in your brain that the right medication can fix.

you only get one life - why waste it being unhappy - got a problem ? fix it.
get back on track as soon as possible. we only live a short time - get the most out of it.

Set lots of small goals and get them done. The joy of accomplishment improves self esteem and focus. As the small goals get completed, you'll gradually start feeling better about your own capabilities and appealing qualities as a person. Games help with this, so does poetry.

.. so do women dressed as schoolgirls !

True enough. I don't know if she has a harem as big as yours though. I just got my eleventh fetish girl and the schoolgirls in small groups are known to fight with the bondage nuns to avenge years of knuckle rappings. Lots of hair pulling, vinyl and holy water everywhere.

if anyone needs me - i'll be in the [cold] shower