My Life is really messing up
 

I don't want to sound emo or anything but everything is going wrong. My mum's had a brain hemerage, my half sister is in depression and her baby (my nephew) is really sick. I haven't spoken to my half brother in months because we always end up shouting at each other.

But on top of this, I just found out that one of my best friends (also my other best friends girlfriend) who is 14 has gone back to her old self. She's smoking and drinking and taking drugs, she lost her virginity at 12 years old. She also slit her wrists. Me, and my other two best friends helped her out of it and she stopped. It's been a few months since then.

Well, the other day we smelt smoke on her breath and found some vodka in her bag and some new scars on her arms. My friend who was going out with her wasn't sure what to do. Today, we found out she'd ditched some of her girl-friends who's house she was sleeping around to go and sleep around the house of a 15 and 17 year old. She sent a text of her in her underwear with the boys to the people she'd ditched and they showed us. So I had a huge argument with her over the phone which ended in me calling her a slag and a bitch and hanging up. She was one of my best friends and within a few days we've ended up hating each other. SHE'S FUCKING 14!


Sorry to post this but I had to speak to someone about it all.

leave her be for a bit, it may just be attention seeking....

I hope so. She was a good friend but I don't think I wanna be friends with someone who does this kind of stuff.

Everyone acts out and does weird stuff at some point in their lives. Hang in there and be a good friend to her. That's what she needs.

Good advice from everyone. And, also, be a good friend to yourself. Try to be as centered as possible in times of challenge. Some days it takes effort to stay in your center. You can do it.

It could be her just trying to get attention or it could be a huge cry for help.If she really is as good of a friend as you say she is then you'll stick by her and try to help her out.

Hope things start getting better for ya.

No need for more advice, what's been given is good enough.

They start young these days I swear. Just let her know that your there for here and try to make it obvious that it bothers you and your just trying to help.

I could be off, but are the glasses suppose to imply something?