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Originally posted by Zombee
The hole will meand but will never completely heal.. there will always be a small bit of loss but its a loss you can eventually deal with and almost enjoy in a weird way.
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I hate to say this, but this is true. Even though I'm over my ex and love my new girlfriend very much, I do still think about when I was with my ex and it still hurts. That was over nine month's ago too.
Oh! And especially do NOT I repeat do NOT listen to any song that you listened to while you were with your ex. It will make you start remembering good or bad times and even the good times in the music feel bad.
You will get over it to a degree though. If you don't, you aren't human. And if it hurts even after a long while, it only means you're sane. So try too cheer up and move on with your life. It's not good to dwell on past feelings. You'll feel alot better when you move on. Don't try to forget the feelings and happiness you had before the heart break though. Sometimes it feels good to remember. :) Just don't get so far wrapped into the past that you forget to live.