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Originally posted by Zero
i'm the last person to give advice. . .
but . . .
it seems to me the relationship you have with your husband is REAL (day to day, kiss good morning, cuddle at night) love . . . feelings of passion and recollections of love with this other guy are, at best, potential (and therefore not yet real) and, at worst, illusions created by memory. as for me, i'd pick the real love and let the memories stay in the past. . . but good luck with a tough situation.
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I agree with Zero on this. The fact that you even have to think twice about this seems like a slap in Dustin's face. You two seem so happy......I'd be careful, very careful. I'm interested in knowing if you are even going to bring this up with Dustin or just let it continue to surface?????