[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by filmmaker2
I know he doesn't like it when I assert control over my own shit. But I feel better knowing he didn't abuse the friendship for purposes of causing emotional distress so he could get off on the power/control of it.

Oh...My sister is like that...I wouldn't let her borrow my new steam cleaner (I had only used it once)...So...She complained to my mother! :eek: ...How childish?....Anyway, my mother gave me shit for it, so I eventually lent it to my sister, just to make it stop...AND...The stupid bitch broke the hand tool...No big surprise, but NOW I can make mom feel guilty about it, so NEITHER of them ask to borrow shit from me anymore...

My sister STILL tries to irritate me in other ways, though...Kinda 'testing/pushing' me....For example...She KNOWS (and so does everyone else) that I don't let other people (except their dad) hold my babies, when they are little...Babies are susceptible to all sorts of germs and illnesses, so the stupid bitch tries to KISS them, looking right at me when she does it...Almost daring me...grrr...ALSO...She knows that I don't let anyone take my kids anywhere (except me), Seri never went anywhere with Shane (without me) until she was almost 17...Alex is only allowed to go with his dad NOW, because we are divorced, and it still makes me nervous as hell....Anyway, she used to CONSTANTLY ask my kids if they wanted to go places with her, she finally gave up because they kept saying "no", but she still gave me a lot of shit about it....Needless to say, I only see her about twice a year...

I fucking HATE people that can't respect the wishes and boundaries of others...

I don't do that to people...And they shouldn't TRY to do it to me...



Damn...Can I go off on a tangent or WHAT?:p :D