[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Pythoness
Oh, sweet monkey moses! Sorry to hear that, Arioch.

Who the hell leaves a relationship because of a LACK of conflict!? I'll never understand that mindset.

It seems most people associate that kind of thing with women, (and I've dated a couple drama queens in my time) but I once had a guy dump me for his verbally abusive ex. Our relationship, apparently, lacked the drama and antagonism he craved. :rolleyes:

*Ahem*...Arioch hasn't been on this forum for about a year, and I don't think he'll ever be back (unless he shows up just to prove me wrong :p...Which I seriously doubt...)....

However, as it turns out, he either wasn't quite the 'nice guy' that he pretended to be, or he decided to stop being 'nice' a few years ago, in order to 'get more chicks'...He's quite the player these days...


Anyway...My point is...For all these guys who say "nice guys finish last"...I gotta wonder...Do they REALLY know what a 'nice guy' is?


Personally, I can't stand assholes, I dealt with that shit for 17 years...Conflict is NOT fun, there are FAR better forms of communication and a MUCH better way to get someone's attention than starting shit...Turmoil sucks ASS...

You wanna get excited, keep someone's attention and expend energy?...You need 'intensity' in a relationship?...You want to keep things from getting 'boring'?...Then FUCK...Don't FIGHT...

I do realize that some people love a challenge, and they actually thrive on the excitement and energy expended in a fight (my ex)...But, that is NOT me (or most sane people)...

All I want...All I have EVER wanted..All I will ever want...Is just peace...serenity...happiness...for my family....Someone who cares, and isn't afraid to show that they care..Someone honest, decent, loyal, intelligent and REAL....Hell, I can even look past 'intelligent', if they've got the rest...The brain makes a better business partner, but the heart makes a better lover...And, the body really isn't even a factor...