[Nchantress]

You really want us to believe that you are a psychologist? How, pray tell, did you accomplish that with such an abrasive attitude, an inability to brush off negativity that you say you find to be childish, and spelling and grammar skills that are so poor they near clinical retardation levels? Not to mention you are 25 you say? That would mean that you started right at 18, got your Bachelor's in Psychology, then 2 or 3 years for a Master's and an unknown number of years for your PhD. That's quite a feat to do all that work so quickly, or are the education requirements in Ireland so much poorer than ours in the United States?
By the way, if you continue to post here, even though you were "wasting your time", you will increase your posts well into the numbers of the people who have been here for years.
I'm just asking because I'm curious, I don't want you to feel attacked here, since you already seem to be lashing out as though you were backed into a corner. We're all friends here. Tell me your feelings.