Having dealt with a similar situation (family member, accident, spinal injury) I feel for you and Anna. I understand the frustration, and the inconsolable helplessness that goes along with the situation.
As much as you hate hospitals, she is hating it worse. The only thing that can be done is to spend as much time with her as possible (whatever hospital policy allows) since the separation only increases the sense of anxiety for the both of you. And when you're with her...be a ray of sunshine! Fake it if you have to, but she needs you right now, and being truly needed by someone is where we show exactly what we are made of.
Cry your eyes out at home if you have to, but be awesome for her when you see her.
Deepest sympathy and well wishes for the both of you.
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