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Originally Posted by monster123
My mom is so depended on my dad it would be impossible for her to leave in her mind :(
I had alittle girl when i was 18 shes my pride and joy but her dad left me :mad: id love to adopt a little chinese girl i think China is a pretty messed up place.
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How your mom is is how one of my neigbors suposed "wife" is.
Here's their story:
He used to be a heavy drinker, not as much smoker. I got to the alcholic level and he was pretty much a hell raiser.
About 30+ years or so ago, he used to date my cousin's mom. I guess they broke up because eventually my cousin's mom had her by my blood Uncle.
Any way my neighbor meets another woman during the same time he was in bad shape and they become bf and gf and wound up living together for 25+ years. They had a daughter together who is mentally disabled. No one really knows if they're married--all we know is that they've been living together for a long time and whenever we mention "anniversary" or ask about his "wedding ring" they act as if they don't hear us or always say they "forgot." A few times my parents assisted helping the guy out of alleys and gutters when he would pass out. In the 90s when I was born he started to slack down because his diabetes and ashtma got really bad and he would have frequent hospital trips. But he got better.
Eventually his daughter grew up and met some guy in high school, became her boyfriend and after high school moved in with her and her parents. 9 months later she has a son by him, whom is also mentally disabled and has speech and behavoir problems (He might be declared with mental retardation and autism; not down syndrome because he has no physical impairments) Now she and the mother stayed home ---she was very dependent on the mother--they went ever where together; Her supposed husband and son in law worked. When the son was about 8 the supposed husband had an accident and was declared disabled and told not to work (He still does though--under the table, in addition to getting disability $ from the government) When the boy reaches 10 she's pregnant with this guy's second child. No changes. Still not married...two adults living in the parents home with 2 kids and one's disabled.
The supposed husband was pretty angry at the situation and wanted them to leave. He would wittness times when the guy was abusive verbal and at times physical to his daughter and children. But the supposed wife ignored it all and said to him "if you love me, it wouldn't matter; because if they go, I'll go." So they didn't leave. She said she needed him and her and went on this tangent. Anyways they recently left this summer after 13 years of adulthood in her parents' home.
Sorry for the long story, just saying I know some people {women} are like that.