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Originally Posted by Despare

Actually, despite liking the movie quite a bit, I didn't like either of the main characters. That was the biggest flaw of the movie in my opinion, no likable leads.

I don't think it's a flaw at all- I believe the filmmakers intended that ambiguity, and it's part of its brilliance.

I also believe how much empathy/liking you have for the girl may be quite different, depending upon gender.