I hold a grudge only when someone has proven time and time again that they are still willing and able to continue the actions that made me mad in the first place.
i am willing to forgive and forget when it's heartfelt - everyone admits the mistake or understanding - and then we get along with life.
but when someone just continues to exhibit the same bullshit behavior over and over again especially after insincere apologies... then fuck 'em.
im my mind they are done. i guess thats a grudge.
i never claimed to be jesus christ.
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