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On "bitchin and moaning":
I used to complain constantly about the littlest things. I found it very therapeutic, until my boyfriend pointed out that it made it seem like I didn't want help with my problems, just attention.
So now if something's realllly bugging me I post it on twitter. If I want the subject to "accidentally" get around to the offending person I will tweet about it for them to see, but when I see them in person I will be nice and bring up the subject politely. That way I seem nice but they know I was clearly upset by it. It's passive aggressive of me, and really kinda lame, but it works.
On "being a bitch":
I can be a bitch on purpose really well. I am witty and can usually make people look and feel horrible just because I want to. Other times I am the shittiest person sometimes completely by accident.
Like on Wednesday when a girl who is in my class and I finished our test at the same time and left the room. She immediately clung to me and was telling me about herself, trying to make friends. She was a bit of an over-sharer and told me about her Dad being in jail, how she has ptsd, how her dad was an alcoholic and killed her dog right in front of her, how her dad tried to poison her mom for insurance money. Then she told me all about her love of the Twilight series, and about every single book she read throughout her entire childhood. Finally I told her I had to leave, and walked away to see a friend. The first thing out of my mouth was "omg I just spent an hour with the most annoying person in the woooorld, thank god I saw you and escaped." Turns out the girl had followed me, and was standing less than a foot behind me. I was mortified, and felt so bad cause she clearly just needs friends. :(
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