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01-22-2006, 10:15 PM
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Another Heartbreak Thread... :(
Ya'll, I know ya'll get so tired of hearing about 'love' problems. But I am so confused right now about what happened with my relationship. We were doing so good and then all of a sudden he was gone. No one knows where he is, not even his own mother. He didn't tell anybody goodbye or anything. I am so sick to my stomach about this. I mean, what if he didn't just 'run away' from us all. What if something happened??? I just don't know. I do believe he just left, but at least he could have been decent enough to tell me goodbye and have the balls to end it to my face. I'm through ranting and raving now. Sorry to have wasted space, just had to get that off of my chest. Whoever reads this thanks for listening.
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01-23-2006, 02:22 AM
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Maybe he had some major issues that he didn't want to share with people and wanted to figure it out himself.. I dunno , some people tend to hold things in and wont let it out with people they care for.
Give it a day or 2. See what happens. If there are too many concerns you can always call the police.
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01-23-2006, 03:21 AM
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I speak only of my personal views on the matter...they may, or may not turn out to be accurate, I am just providing to you what some people will not.
His mother knows, but she's not going to tell you. He's a spineless fuck that didn't have the balls to front up about being unhappy, for one reason or another, in your relationship. He may have even been cheating on you. I'd say that within a week, you'll either hear from him again, crawling back without so much as a good excuse (eg - doesn't want to tell you he had another prospect in the first place, let alone that he was fool enough to follow up on something that wasn't a sure thing, and it backfired on him...) it may not even be another female...however, if this is the case, and he DOES come back to you, I would advise against blindly taking him back, your judgement on this matter will set you up in terms of how you will be treated, and the kind of treatment you will ACCEPT in the future. OR... you won't hear back from him at all. If it's the latter, No doubt at some point you WILL find out where he is, and through questioning the RIGHT people - eg - NOT someone who will adamantly defend this person and their actions out of a feeling of family obligation...not a person that will lie, perhaps even an ex girlfriend, or an enemy. Perhaps a little subtle strategic surveillance of hangout areas, friends and family, workplaces...etc would also be advantageous. My apologies for being so blunt, but I think that aside from a minute possibility that he's "lost", or actually suffering some kind of emotional problem he didn't want to confront others with (although, I personally think these things should be discussed with yout partner out of RESPECT), one of the abovementioned scenarios is in fact the case. Of course there is the possibility that he's either been injured some place out of town, or he's dead...neither of which you can do a great deal about. Sincerely - BJA
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01-23-2006, 05:14 AM
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Good analysis, Cheeba. That seems the most likely situation, I think anyway.
Another scenario is based on one that happened to a girl I used to be friends with. Her boyfriend was having some deep emotional trouble, and his parents put him in the hospital. They also told her that they didn't know where he was. If your bf was having trouble, this case is a possibility. I sure hope the dude is okay, but if he's playing you (couldn't think of why he would;) ) Then you need to kick him in the jewels, and get over him. If you need me, I'm only a pm away. We got your back, babe.:)
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01-23-2006, 05:19 AM
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scaryminda15
its ok girl if you ever need me im here for you. i kinda feel that something could have happened but think some what positive. does his mother cry or think something terrible happened if so he could be hurt but if not she knows well good luck with the sitution if u nee a perfect good stranger to talk to im here lol jk
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01-23-2006, 07:16 AM
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I'm also here if you need to vent. I've been through similar situations more times than I can count.
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01-23-2006, 07:36 AM
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My friend did this, he just had problems commiting to anything including his own life. One day he hitchiked to Las Vegas and traded a paintball gun for a sleeping bag so he could stay in Vegas for a while. Afterward he went to Cali and I got in touch with him a year and a half later. He just wanted a change he said. Some people are impulsive like that. I'm sure you'll hear from him again and hopefully that will help because you'll know he's ok.
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01-23-2006, 07:50 AM
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