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The off days in a relationship
I've been in a relationship for 5 years now, and have been living with the bf for almost a year, and I never thought that on some days, I would have to actually convince myself that I do love him, in order to keep myself from smothering him with a pillow while he sleeps.
So I know that relationships are hard fucking work, and not all days are gonna be smooth sailing, but do you sometimes just really hate your significant other ? No, I'm sorry... hate is too strong a word.... No, it isn't. Right now, I really do hate him. :)
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there are times we'd be happy to kill each other - no doubt about it.
it happens ... no two people with heartbeats can live to gether for an extended period of time without conflict. it's impossible. i think the rule is - never go to bed mad (but even thats impossible sometimes) oh yeah - and if you're the girl - remember... the guy is ALWAYS right.
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its not good holding those feelings inside, smother him and have an affair next to his corpse....dont fight your bodies natrual instinct.
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Yeah... I think so too. :p
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Honestly, you can't get along all the time. My boyfriend absolutely frustrates me sometimes, but I don't think that I would say that I've ever hated him (which actually means a lot because I personally suffer from serious rage issues and generally wind up resenting and/or hating people that I'm with after a period of time). However, we've only been together for a year (best friends for 2). Five years is a long-ass time. At this point it's either work out those differences (make sure to be very open and honest with him and don't rule out couples counseling - if you really want it to work, it could be worth it), and if you don't think you can get passed them, well, is this what you want? Then again, I honestly have no frame of reference. Pardon me if I sound didactic. The best words of advice that I've gotten re relationships was from a friend of mine who married her high school sweetheart and has been together for 10 years now (happily and preggo): Pick your battles. For someone who deals with uncontrollable rage (and I did for a while), that honestly helped me center myself when I found myself really getting pissed at my boyfriend. Quote:
... You can be my corpse anytime. *readies syringe*
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