Astrological Compatibility . . . Curious?

[wufongtan]

scorpio male
june 30 her

[theshadow]

i am a female cancer. my hubby a leo. we must be compatible we've been together a long time.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by nine9
Well Bloodrayne, this is cool! Of course I have read up on all this but I love to hear other people's opinions!

So great gypsy oracle.......Gemini, me and Sag., hub. Also hub is a little younger.

Value your educated analysis!LOL!

BTW....most of my friends are either other geminis or Cancers, have always gone out with or been attracted to Saggitarious or
Scorpio men.

1 sign I usually hate but won't say....;)

:rolleyes: The wink was meant for the sentence above....:( :D

Well...It looks like I have a little catching up to do...As for the sign that you most likely have problems with, my guess would be Scorpio...That wouldn't surprise me at all...Perhaps if you hooked up your Scorpio friends with your Cancer friends, you would get along better with the Scorpios for the favor...Cancer is Scorpio's only perfect match...Also, it would be best to keep those Scorpio's away from your husband, especially if they are female...Scorpio/Sagittarius attraction is very strong...But, it is a love/hate relationship...they are drawn to each other, but cannot tolerate each other over long periods of time...I already did the compatibility for you and your husband, it's on page 8 of this thread... :)

Well...It looks like Yourlastmistake is up next, and I really have to get to MythMan soon, as I missed him when the thread was up before...Give me a few minutes:)

[Steve_Hutchison]

Female - Aquarius
Male - Virgo

[Plaguewind]

Well, what can I say... This thing works... And that's why I say I've had enough of this astrological compatibility stuff for some time... *sigh*...

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by yourlastmistake
male[virgo]
female[cancer]

We have been together for 13 years.No matter what the stars say any relationship takes work.

thanks
;)

This one needs love and patience to work out, and honestly isn't recommended (don't rule out other aspects and influences that can effect your own individual personalities...sometimes this can make a huge difference in compatiblity), but...Love conquers all...

Virgos qualities of being ruled by intellect and logic goes far in making him a formidable force to deal with. While Cancer's emotions are such as to prevent her from being the gregarious type and can be frustrating to Virgo at times, the nurturing, domestic qualities help to make up for it as these qualities go far in making Virgo feel loved and secure. Cancer's family ties are strong, and relatives will be in and out more often than Virgo prefers; this state of affairs can serve to irritate him.

Cancer is shrewd in caring for their finances, although she may not be emotionally able to handle the criticism that will surely be coming her way should there be a mistake. Living with critical Virgo will not be an easy task for the emotionally high strung Cancer who will take all the criticisms to heart and sulk for days.

One of the dangers in this relationship will be too much caring! Each one of these signs love to look after, and fuss around the person they love, which will go far in making life intolerable for both of them. Together these signs do a lot of talking about things that need doing; each one needs to be paired with a positive personality for anything but talk to get accomplished.

Neither one of these two are greatly moved by the urge for sexual intimacy (Cancer is generally more sexual than Virgo, but Cancer often needs a bit of encouragement, and Virgo doesn't usually provide it), and because of this, sex may not play a big role in their relationship. Petty quarrels and criticisms could spoil what little harmony they can create together.

It's obvious that you have found a way to make this work out, which can only mean that you both love each other very much...Sometimes when we overcome all of the obstacles and make it work despite fate, the bond is even stronger because of it...People are not willing to fight for something that isn't worth fighting for, and so...this must obviously be worth it:)

BTW, Since the Virgo in this relationship is the male, the Virgo traits will not be as strong as they would have for a female, Virgo is a feminine sign, and as such will cause the husband to be a bit more submissive, making compromise easier than if it had been the other way around ;)

[nine9]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
For Nine9...

Sagittarius is easy to fall in love with due to the fact that he is full of fun and life, plus genuine love for his fellow creature; it is not an easy task to make this love last. Gemini's need to talk, learn, and observe could be a drawing card for Sagittarius who shares these same traits.

Gemini has a well hidden stubborn streak that could give Sagittarius cause for pause when he does not always go along with her ideas and plans as material things are not a consideration for her. Since both of these signs are people magnets they will have precious little time alone.

They both need to have a lot of personal freedom but in different ways. Sagittarius must always feel that he is free and can do anything he pleases, whereas Gemini will only want to do the forbidden, or restricted. Although a nagger, Sagittarius cannot abide anyone nagging him, which will give the feel of restricting his personal freedom; this will eventually drive Sagittarius away.

Jealousy by Gemini will play a big role here as Sagittarius can seldom be true. Their sex life will be rewarding and this is practically the only area where you will find compatibility in a love match.

Well, that's what the charts say...BUT, I always say that love can make anything work, and also...Depending on how close to the cusp you are, and planetary influences at the time of your birth, you may not be 100% true to your sign or signs....This is just very general information based on those who are VERY true to their signs...There should be some underlying truths, but it doesn't have to be 100%:) ...So, if it's working for you (and it obviously is), one or both of you are a bit off center for your sign

LOL! My hub is the ultimate nagger, I'm more easy going!

But oh yeah I AM STUBBORN!

We are also opposites... I am a city girl..any he is a country guy..I HATE THE COUNTRY!

Also....hunter vs.....vegetarian,

I also like the arts, he he barely reads, but is a suprisingly good writer!

My family......writing, ballet, theatre

His.......... fishing, hunting, having babies!

Totally opposite, but we have the same taste in movies opposites attract??????:confused:

Thanks Bloodrayne! interesting!

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by MythMan84
what sign is pisces compatible with?

Sorry, I didn't see this question before MythMan...Here is your answer now....

Perfect Match-Aries
Pretty good-Taurus, Scorpio (Can be close to perfect, if neither of you have any common sense...lol), and Cancer
Stay away from-Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Leo, Aquarius, Virgo and Pisces

It's interesting how the generally docile Pisces can tame the more aggressive signs (with the exception of Leo)...It really is about balance:)

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by wufongtan
scorpio male
june 30 her

She is a Cancer...Congratulations, She is perfect for you :D ...Btw, now I understand your personality a bit better, as well as your...umm...difficulty in getting along with many of the other forum members:p :D...Scorpios are almost always extremely hyper, have a difficult time concentrating on more than one thing at a time, but are usually quite intelligent...Okay, let me show you your compatibility....

Scorpio and Cancer are both motivated by emotion and intuition and the bond they share will be very strong. Scorpio throws his heart and soul into a relationship and expects his mate to be true, and will keep a jealous eye open for any wrong doing; Since Scorpio is the man in this match he will be an excellent provider.

Fortunately for the relationship, Cancer's beliefs are a mirror of Scorpio's and Cancer will not give any reason for the Scorpion jealousy to blossom. Scorpio works hard, either at home or on a job, and his home is the place reserved for peace and quiet which is necessary to unwind from all of the daily tensions. If the Scorpio's emotional needs are met and he is comfortable with the trust he will put in Cancer, then you can expect Scorpio not to look at any other member of the opposite sex.

Cancer's natural concern for other people may somehow lead Scorpio to think that they are using Cancer's good nature and disposition, secretly these thoughts will come from a touch of jealousy of Cancer's interest in someone besides him. Cancer has great respect for Scorpio, and even though Cancer is of a slightly critical nature. She will learn to phrase these criticisms without wounding Scorpio's pride.

Cancer can be possessed completely by Scorpio in sexual relations, and be inspired to greater response than she can with any other sign. Cancer is able to express herself more with Scorpio, thus widening Cancer's horizons of passion. You have to say this is a match made in Heaven.

I love doing this match up:D

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by theshadow
i am a female cancer. my hubby a leo. we must be compatible we've been together a long time.

Well...Here is another one where I hope that you have read all of my disclaimers...It's all about love, patience and compromise....

Leo will have a lot of trouble breaking through the protective shell of the Cancerian because the crab likes to hide her feelings inside and shows the world a very different image of being thicker skinned than she really is. Eventually Leo will break through and then he will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.

Cancer is initially attracted to Leo's regal bearing and fun loving manner, but shortly Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another and the fiery ardor of Leo will cause Cancer to feel that real love cannot last with such intensity and begins to doubt his heartfelt words of love. Being Moody and easily hurt by almost everything that is said will cause Cancer to sulk for days and this will not go over very big with Leo, who has no time for someone who cannot keep up with him.

The quiet outer facade of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Leo, and Cancer will do well to try to be everything that Leo expects in a mate. Cancer can provide, totally by instinct, the kind of home Leo wants and expects and this alone can heal many wounds. Leo's occasional, wildly extravagant moods will aggravate the economical values of Cancer. Cancer worries about the future and the future is the furthermost thing from Leo's mind and only amuses him.

Both Leo and Cancer feel they should be the 'boss' and the home loving, nurturing, Cancer will spend more time sulking than talking unless she is allowed to make most of the decisions. This situation could not be tolerated by Leo who must be in the limelight, or be gone. Sexually, Leo's demands can get excessive as their appetites vary considerably. With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly this could be a shaky union, but with a more considerate and giving attitude on the part of Leo, and the positive type of Cancerian it can be made to work. Otherwise, this is not recommended.

You must be a very "positive" person...That is quite an admirable quality:)