Worrying Censorship Developments At Hdc

[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by Kane_Hodder

And I thought this was just a discussion forum where people logged on to talk about horror films and their individual tastes and choices.
All this is a really, really sad and sorry state of affairs in here.

Please don't blame the masses for the actions of a few (or in this case, just 2...But, mostly 1)...ANY medium of communication can be misused and abused

And...It happens EVERYWHERE...Just because other forums haven't discovered it, or come out with it, that doesn't mean that they are any safer than it is here...As a matter of fact, I'd say that it's MORE safe here because WE are aware of the problem...Most places aren't...But, trust me...They ARE there

[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by monalisa

Thank you Rayne. Please don't delete the posts about how he victimized members, so that the other people that it happened to know it wasn't just them. I know you'll use good judgement, you always do. :)

Believe me...It took a lot for those who have spoken to come out with and share their encounters...They should (and will) be heard...Hopefully it will encourage some of the others to open up, get it out (it can help you to feel better to purge yourself of nasty shit like this), and someday return to the forum

[jenna26]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

Please don't feel bad...You were one of the 'unmentionables'...If you had ANY idea how long the list of female members who feel the SAME way is, it would blow your mind...Like you, they didn't want to say anything on the forum, so there wasn't much we could do because the people here demand proof (and rightly so)...There was no way that we were going to pressure people to come out with this, not just to satisfy the forum...We lost an unbelievable amount of GOOD female posters because of Trip/DJ...He 'tried out' EVERY girl that joined...Imagine how many females left the forum and decided they couldn't come back...They were ashamed, hurt, embarassed, disgusted, and as difficult as it is for an ADULT (like you, Mona, Asylum Seeker) to deal with this, just IMAGINE the effect on a 13, 14, 15, 16 year-old girl...I'm sure he doesn't realize (or give a shit) the trauma he caused SO many kids here

I'm very sorry that we had to wait until it had escalated through the roof...It isn't something that one can easily accuse someone of without anything to back it up

I'm DEFINITELY NOT blaming the victims...I (and I hope 'WE') understand completely

It's very scary to consider what he's doing (and has most likely done) in REAL LIFE...

If we could get back even HALF of the female members he has run off (and seriously...the list is a mile long), this would be a bustling forum


Now I'm going to try to 'clean up' this thread a bit, in anticipation of its closing

Thanks BR. :)
I'm beginning to get an idea of how much damage he caused here. And I do feel bad for not saying something; and believe me had I ANY idea that it involved young girls, I would have. I don't have to imagine what that is like, and it scares the hell out of me, thinking about what he may be getting away with not only online, but outside of the internet.

[monalisa]

Ugh, I feel like I have to say this, just in case. I found out that apparently he (trippin') is bisexual, so it may not only be females that he victimized. Whoever it happened to, female or male, you are not alone and it wasn't your fault!

[mordrid]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

Please don't blame the masses for the actions of a few (or in this case, just 2...But, mostly 1)...ANY medium of communication can be misused and abused

And...It happens EVERYWHERE...Just because other forums haven't discovered it, or come out with it, that doesn't mean that they are any safer than it is here...As a matter of fact, I'd say that it's MORE safe here because WE are aware of the problem...Most places aren't...But, trust me...They ARE there

I can speak from experience that it happens everywhere. I help run another forum and we have a lot of teen members, and I do mean a lot. We have had issues of older men and women asking for pics of kids, of them nude, trying to get them into yahoo or on phone to talk sex. I created a teenager account just for the purpose of catching these pervs. We have been dealing with this issue 6 yrs at this forum and it is a non stop battle. Kill one sick perv, ten more replaces them

**EDIT** Jenna and Monalisa, you are both a lot braver than I am. I dont think I could have stepped up and told those stories. I got a lot of respect for you both and everyone else who has told what happened to them.

[Posher778]

Phew, thank God he never pm'd me shit like that... SO glad that those assholes are gone.

[Angra]

Originally Posted by Posher778

Phew, thank God he never pm'd me shit like that... SO glad that those assholes are gone.

Did he have any kids? In real life, that is.

[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by Angra

Did he have any kids? In real life, that is.

He posts pictures of himself with a little girl (about 6-7 years old) that he says is his daughter...He says he has custody of her because her mother is a psycho, crack-addicted whore (of course, I can almost believe THAT part, because...well...Who ELSE would have sex with him? :rolleyes: )...Who really knows?

MOST of the ADULT women that he targets, have little girls...

[Angra]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

He posts pictures of himself with a little girl (about 6-7 years old) that he says is his daughter...He says he has custody of her because her mother is a psycho, crack-addicted whore (of course, I can almost believe THAT part, because...well...Who ELSE would have sex with him? :rolleyes: )...Who really knows?

MOST of the ADULT women that he targets, have little girls...

I just hope it's possible for a guy like him to be a good/normal dad...

[jenna26]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

He posts pictures of himself with a little girl (about 6-7 years old) that he says is his daughter...He says he has custody of her because her mother is a psycho, crack-addicted whore (of course, I can almost believe THAT part, because...well...Who ELSE would have sex with him? :rolleyes: )...Who really knows?

MOST of the ADULT women that he targets, have little girls...

Yes, this is one of things that has been on my mind; one of the ways he hooked me so to speak was because of his love for his daughter, how devoted he was to her, how much hell he was going through with the custody battle. And now....I don't know what the hell to think.