The Gay Thread

[Ferox13]

Originally Posted by Caenxavier

You realize most cross-dressers are straight, right? look it up.

Not all of them......

[cheebacheeba]

Does it really bother you if some one is very camp or has over the top mannerisms?

Not really no, but that said I don't really gravitate towards anybody who's over the top gay or straight.
Effeminate isn't really what I take issue to, if I did females wouldn't appeal to me so much...I just don't need "Hey I'm gay!!! written in flashing neon lights to know and or care, I find it a little uncomfortable to be around - As I would with anyone.
Comparison - A person who watches football vs A person who buys tickets to every game, rocking the colours and facepaint.
That's all it is for me really...just like I can watch porn, but in most cases I'd rather not be splashed by it.
Just the kind of guy I am, and the kind of people I tend to share my time with.

It is because of lack of hormones that feminine gays are flamboyant.

That certainly is an intelligent point.

Do you hate jews that wear little caps and have big bushy grey beards too?
Its not because theyre a walking stereotype that you have a problem with gays. Its because of your own insecurity in your masculinity.

I never said I hated anybody, did I?
(Though I'm surprised YOU would bring up ME attacking culture)
Nor did I say I had a problem with gays...?
Oh right, you're pissed because I called you ignorant over in your Hitler enthusiast friends thread...so, now you want to get back at me?
Play it like I'm some kind of bigot for preferring people that act refined and sensible rather than all in-your-face?
...riight...that's your plan? To call me out on that?
At least I won't try to back up my reasons with a bunch of utter bullshit and simply mention again, it's a preference based on the personality type I'd prefer to be in the company of myself.
You think that's to do with my Insecurity in my masculinity...
Do you actually buy into your own bullshit?
What other piece of inane cerealbox psychology will you come up with next?
Perhaps I have mother issues because I don't like every single female?
I must also have a deep seated resentment towards animals as I eat meat?
Nice way you've got of making yourself look less ignorant with more stupid fucking assumptions based on your complete lack of knowledge on subject matter.
You, are an idiot.
Talking to you is honestly like trying to draw water from an empty well.
You're just, an absolute clown.
For the record, I'm glad you don't care if I call you ignorant.
You're a completely ignorant, self absorbed, closed minded racist asshole with their head so far up their own ass that they are convinced completely that they're not. YOU FUCKING SORRY JOKE of a human being.
Wow, you silly CUNT.
I'm just done with you...Do the world a favour - don't breed.

[fuglystick]

Most of the gay guys I know are just guys who happen to be attracted to men *shrug*

[Ferox13]

cheebacheeba - gotcha thats honest enuff.....

[cheebacheeba]

Most of the gay guys I know are just guys who happen to be attracted to men *shrug*

Yup, couple guys at my work have that vibe going on.
Just dudes. What's the difference? Oh? You like guys? Ok.
It doesn't have to be Earth shattering.
I mean if it's honestly how a person acts and they're not just trying to make a point with it I think it's ok for a gay (or straight for that matter) to conduct themselves in any way that they're comfortable with.
I myself do not "express" my sexuality, I just, am...but if people don't operate that way then I get that, this is because the human species varies greatly.
Though yeah in the more "extreme" cases, just because I find it a little odd, pointless, or annoying, doesn't mean anyone's got a right to tell someone how it ought to be. Preference, works both ways.
I can't say I am really fond of overly girly girls either, or drama queens of the male or female variety.

[cheebacheeba]

Originally Posted by Ferox13

cheebacheeba - gotcha thats honest enuff.....

Cool, glad it was taken as intended.

[ProfondoXxRosso]

And one more thing. Regardless of whether or not you believe it your views of homosexuals is completely hypocritical. I dont know one gay guy that writes "IM GAY" in flashing neon lights so everybody can see it. I dont know one! And the same thing can be said about all the straight guys that talk about vag in front of everybody and think its okay, and post flyers of half naked women all over the world in public places, hold hands with their wives, and shit of the sort. This could be taken as offensive to somebody that does not like it, but because the majority of humans are straight, I guess that means we have to just put up with it right? You are bashing gays that would hold hands in public because you think thats queer. Thats what youre saying even if you dont understand it. You need to choose your words a little better because this is what you sound like. You also sound like somebody that gets angry when other people dont agree with you and resort to rage to try and get your point across. But newsflash people close down and refuse to listen to you when you get so uptight and pissy. I also dont need a psych degree to realize this about you, and nobody here does. You may aswell just write "Im a really angry person at the world" in flashing neon lights and get right up in my face with it.

[Ferox13]

Originally Posted by ProfondoXxRosso

I dont know one gay guy that writes "IM GAY" in flashing neon lights so everybody can see it. I dont know one!

To be fair I've met a few people like this - most of them weren't out that long but I met one or 2 who were very in your face about their sexuality.

[ProfondoXxRosso]

Originally Posted by Ferox13

To be fair I've met a few people like this - most of them weren't out that long but I met one or 2 who were very in your face about their sexuality.

How were they in your face about it?

[Caenxavier]

Originally Posted by ProfondoXxRosso

I dont know one gay guy that writes "IM GAY" in flashing neon lights so everybody can see it..

That is what we call a flamer or a queen :D, oh boy do they exist.

Most of the gay men I know won't even talk to them.