More Urgeok Musings : Most Men Hate Women

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by ChronoGrl

...as soon as a woman diverges from that role - weak Men feel threatened.

that statement needed fixing :)

[ChronoGrl]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

that statement needed fixing :)

True. VERY true.

And I'd like to go out of my way right now to say that I TOTALLY heart Urge.

*cuddles Urge*

[monster123]

So this is a semi old thread i decided to read and all i can say is your a pretty awesome guy probably one of the best I've ever seen. I grew up in a family that completely hates women, my fathers first marriege went to hell and now he treats his second wife (my mom) like dirt. He taught his boys that women were sluts and evil. So i totally get what your saying people need to raise there kids to love and cherish women. I think your a good person Urgeok! (idk your real name).

[Leprucky Cougar]

Originally Posted by monster123

So this is a semi old thread i decided to read and all i can say is your a pretty awesome guy probably one of the best I've ever seen. I grew up in a family that completely hates women, my fathers first marriege went to hell and now he treats his second wife (my mom) like dirt. He taught his boys that women were sluts and evil. So i totally get what your saying people need to raise there kids to love and cherish women. I think your a good person Urgeok! (idk your real name).

Has she considered divorcing him?

I'm a female and I grew up in a household with both parents and they both respected each other. My mom however, is my dad's second wife. He divorced his first because of very caniving things she did to him (and kept away from him in the past). Before he met my mother, I wouldn't say he gave up on women, because like many of you guys was a "nice guy"--a gentleman even. But after enduring all he did with his ex-wife, he was skeptical about women and their intentions; and his only weakness when I think about it was loving one (a woman) either too easily or too hard (not knowing, but thinking the feeling's mutual).

I think China though builds being sexist as a family value. There's a child limit there and all female children are disapprovals and "disgraces" to them; I assume that's why so many Americans adopt chinese girls and bring them to America.

[crabapple]

I heart urge too! :) :)

Well not really :mad: :eek: :rolleyes:

[Leprucky Cougar]

Originally Posted by crabapple

I heart urge too! :) :)

Well not really :mad: :eek: :rolleyes:

Yeah urge is awesome !

[monster123]

Originally Posted by Leprucky Cougar

Has she considered divorcing him?

I'm a female and I grew up in a household with both parents and they both respected each other. My mom however, is my dad's second wife. He divorced his first because of very caniving things she did to him (and kept away from him in the past). Before he met my mother, I wouldn't say he gave up on women, because like many of you guys was a "nice guy"--a gentleman even. But after enduring all he did with his ex-wife, he was skeptical about women and their intentions; and his only weakness when I think about it was loving one (a woman) either too easily or too hard (not knowing, but thinking the feeling's mutual).

I think China though builds being sexist as a family value. There's a child limit there and all female children are disapprovals and "disgraces" to them; I assume that's why so many Americans adopt chinese girls and bring them to America.

My mom is so depended on my dad it would be impossible for her to leave in her mind :(

I had alittle girl when i was 18 shes my pride and joy but her dad left me :mad: id love to adopt a little chinese girl i think China is a pretty messed up place.

[Leprucky Cougar]

Originally Posted by monster123

My mom is so depended on my dad it would be impossible for her to leave in her mind :(

I had alittle girl when i was 18 shes my pride and joy but her dad left me :mad: id love to adopt a little chinese girl i think China is a pretty messed up place.

How your mom is is how one of my neigbors suposed "wife" is.

Here's their story:

He used to be a heavy drinker, not as much smoker. I got to the alcholic level and he was pretty much a hell raiser.

About 30+ years or so ago, he used to date my cousin's mom. I guess they broke up because eventually my cousin's mom had her by my blood Uncle.

Any way my neighbor meets another woman during the same time he was in bad shape and they become bf and gf and wound up living together for 25+ years. They had a daughter together who is mentally disabled. No one really knows if they're married--all we know is that they've been living together for a long time and whenever we mention "anniversary" or ask about his "wedding ring" they act as if they don't hear us or always say they "forgot." A few times my parents assisted helping the guy out of alleys and gutters when he would pass out. In the 90s when I was born he started to slack down because his diabetes and ashtma got really bad and he would have frequent hospital trips. But he got better.

Eventually his daughter grew up and met some guy in high school, became her boyfriend and after high school moved in with her and her parents. 9 months later she has a son by him, whom is also mentally disabled and has speech and behavoir problems (He might be declared with mental retardation and autism; not down syndrome because he has no physical impairments) Now she and the mother stayed home ---she was very dependent on the mother--they went ever where together; Her supposed husband and son in law worked. When the son was about 8 the supposed husband had an accident and was declared disabled and told not to work (He still does though--under the table, in addition to getting disability $ from the government) When the boy reaches 10 she's pregnant with this guy's second child. No changes. Still not married...two adults living in the parents home with 2 kids and one's disabled.

The supposed husband was pretty angry at the situation and wanted them to leave. He would wittness times when the guy was abusive verbal and at times physical to his daughter and children. But the supposed wife ignored it all and said to him "if you love me, it wouldn't matter; because if they go, I'll go." So they didn't leave. She said she needed him and her and went on this tangent. Anyways they recently left this summer after 13 years of adulthood in her parents' home.

Sorry for the long story, just saying I know some people {women} are like that.

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by Leprucky Cougar

I think China though builds being sexist as a family value. There's a child limit there and all female children are disapprovals and "disgraces" to them; I assume that's why so many Americans adopt chinese girls and bring them to America.

well, actually in China it's like this .. in an effort to control an out of hand population crisis in many areas you are onlu allowed to have one child.

if you have a boy - he eventually grows up, gets married - supports his parents - especially when they are older.

they dont have the social assistance like we do for older people. It's the kids that take care of the folks.

if your only child is a girl, then you've pretty much guarenteed a horrible retirement for yourself.


i do believe that like in most places - women are treated as second class citizens - but in the situation of baby girls and adoption ... it's an unfortunate survival issue.

i have this knowledge first hand...

[Leprucky Cougar]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

well, actually in China it's like this .. in an effort to control an out of hand population crisis in many areas you are onlu allowed to have one child.

if you have a boy - he eventually grows up, gets married - supports his parents - especially when they are older.

they dont have the social assistance like we do for older people. It's the kids that take care of the folks.

if your only child is a girl, then you've pretty much guarenteed a horrible retirement for yourself.


i do believe that like in most places - women are treated as second class citizens - but in the situation of baby girls and adoption ... it's an unfortunate survival issue.

i have this knowledge first hand...

Well even before they were classified as "overpopulated" I thought they were this way...now they have a legitimate excuse now...and in terms of the very last part of what you said how so? :confused: