'Secure In Your Masculinity'...Or Just 'Fruity'?

[ShankS]

Originally posted by urgeok
i dont equate being 'secure in my masculenity' with wearing womens clothing ...

thats like saying i'm 'secure in my 'lawlesness' bus i'm still comfortable robbing the odd bank ..


its just something i'm not into ...

by the same token i wouldnt expect the girl i'm with to do something she's not comfortable with ..
the one thing that turns me on more than anything else - is when the other person is turned on .. so it becomes this thing that feeds off itself...

so if one person is doing something that makes them feel uncomfortable or foolish - thats gonna get in the way of the
overall feeling ..

I'm man enough to be sensitive to other people - i'm man enough not to have a single trace of homophobia (to the point where i constantly remind the people here that using the turm 'gay' as a negative adjective is potentially hurtful to other members)
I'm comfortable enough in my masculenity to refuse to perpetuate the gender roll bullshit most parents enforce on their kids. I work for a woman, and i think she's the greatest boss in the world. I believe in and encourage 100% equality.

and i also think that if a guy does have fun doing any of these things ..then good on him .. do what turns you on as long as it doesnt hurt anyone.


thats about it for me and my masculenity.....and i'm very comfortable with it ..


oh - and i have a tought time shaving my face - i'm not going to put any other part of me through that torture ..
I'm extremely 'clean concious' and havent gotten any complaints in a long and illustrious career in the bedreem :)

so what you saying?? it's over? .. thats it? what am I gona do with our role playing outfits?:mad:


btw wtf is a bedreem? :D

[urgeok]

Originally posted by ShankS

btw wtf is a bedreem? :D

its the place where i go to dream :)

[EXTR3MIST]

Put it this way - before I joined this forum, I was straight as a die.

Now, I wear dead women's skin AND clothing and prance around the house singing Barbara Streisand.

Damn weirdo forums!

:mad:

[urgeok]

Originally posted by EXTR3MIST
Put it this way - before I joined this forum, I was straight as a die.

Now, I wear dead women's skin AND clothing and prance around the house singing Barbara Streisand.

Damn weirdo forums!

:mad:

i'm partial to Liza myself ..

[MoonLit Meadow]

Hmm...I guess I'll be brave.

The only place I want to see a good amount of hair is on top of people's heads ;) However, bald can be very sexy too.

So on me or my guy it needs to be gone...especially coughdownsouthcoughsneeze....sorry, I have a bit of a cold ;) It just gets in the way of things:p

Also...I think I'd like it if a guy would wear eyeliner...that's pretty hot;)


*RUNS*

[IDrinkYourBlood]

What if your girl wants to role reversal with you, but just not the cloths thing. Say for instence she whippes out a strap on and tells you to bed over, would you do it? and begges and pleads all night for you too.

[Terrin_the_Vamp]

I like for my guys to be hairless, but facial hair is ok with me. I've also had a guy dress up in my lingerie before and it was quite sexy:D

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by Terrin_the_Vamp
I like for my guys to be hairless, but facial hair is ok with me. I've also had a guy dress up in my lingerie before and it was quite sexy:D

Some facial hair is fine with me too, it doesn't have to be completely clean shaven. However, I couldn't date a guy who had some really long curly mustache...creepy ;) Or a beard as long as zz top;)

[meetthecreeper]

I used to wear eyeliner. It was an 80s metal thing and I couldnt do it myself, I always had my girl do it.

I sometimes dye my hair usually black. And I paint my nails sometimes always black. Its my favorite shade.

THe closest I have come to wearing womens clothes was a kilt. But I suppose if I was asked I could be persuaded.:D

As for shaving, I am with Urgeok. I have a hard enough time shaving my face.

But as my sister said, this is what Libras do.

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by meetthecreeper
I used to wear eyeliner. It was an 80s metal thing and I couldnt do it myself, I always had my girl do it.

I sometimes dye my hair usually black. And I paint my nails sometimes always black. Its my favorite shade.

THe closest I have come to wearing womens clothes was a kilt. But I suppose if I was asked I could be persuaded.:D

Very cool...I think eyeliner on a guy is very sexy for some reason :)

Personally, nothing about a man in women's clothing turns me on...but it doesn't bother me either...just not something I'd be into I guess. But to each their own :)

BTW...not trying to say that you're into it, your comment just made me think about it ;)