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07-13-2006, 12:36 PM
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what an interesting thread....
I go for traditional tall, dark, and handsome. I like boys skinnier rather than muscular. I like boys who can drink with me, but are not abusive alcoholics. I'm not picky. The only real necessity that I look for is nice teeth. I'll date anyone with nice teeth. 
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07-13-2006, 02:15 PM
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Eccentric? Double check. Accepting and adoring about being a witch and slightly nutters? I can work with the witchiness (its a word now) and I like peanuts and cashews, so sure. Check. Supportive? Check? Into kinky and dark sex? OK, now you're just teasing me... :p Heh, but seriously...Thanks for the compliment. I seriously do not get off on being cold and perhaps slightly callous, but I hate getting fucked over, especially because I treated someone with love and respect. A seminar, eh? I can see me pacing the stage ala Tony Robinson... "Friends! You are special! Tell me, when you looked in the mirror this morning, did you see 'fuck me over, please!' on your forehead? When you put on your pants or your skirt or whatever, did you see 'Welcome' on your ass like a doormat? Of course not! You are special! You matter! You don't have to take the crap they keep handing out! I can help you!!! Now, if you'll look to the back, you'll see my display table for the books, tapes, cds and dvds you'll need for me to help you...Cash and plastic, checks only with 2 pieces of ID, please..." HA! :D Oh, and as a foot note to my earlier post, a mutal friend of my ex and I called today. After I told her how funny it was she would call agter I just started thinking about my ex afyer so long, she told me how my ex was doing, but it wasn't pretty. It would seem that she went back to the guy, and more fights ensued, which led to more hospital visits. She refused to press charges or even call the police...Others had to do it. Her nose has been broken multiple times, and she's had her jaw wired after a particularly bad beating. The really sad part is that after all the injuries, she's gotten hooked on painkillers pretty badly. So tell me...Am I insane that even after what she did to me, I not only feel sorry for her, but wonder if I could've prevented it?
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07-13-2006, 03:12 PM
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We all make our own beds, so to speak. I don't think that it's something that you should agonize over. She chose this person over you. You can't make her decisions for her.
However it is very very sad that she is in the situation that she is. The more she allows him to hurt her both phyically and emotionally, the harder it will be for her to extricate herself from the situation. Also, she's creating a pattern for herself... the "cycle of abuse" pattern. In other words, she's going to start associating love, attention, and affection with abuse, pain, and torment. This in not your fault, nor is there anything you can do about it. She's got to find the courage to get away, far away, from him, get a restraining order, and get some counseling. Her friend is the link she needs. That's the only way that you can help her. Tell her friend to get her out of there. Were I you, I wouldn't become involved. Old feelings might get stirred up. It would get ugly for both of you really fast, plus you don't need Mr. Clinically Antisocial breathing down your neck. You can't afford to get involved, and I think it would do more harm than good for both of you. I just hope with all my heart, no matter what a bitch she was to you, that she gets help and gets out before he kills her. No woman deserves that kind of shit. I'm going to PM you.
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07-13-2006, 03:57 PM
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Yay! Someone else that says that! Cool! :D
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07-13-2006, 05:32 PM
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and another one, sorry about the small picture....
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07-13-2006, 06:28 PM
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Do you know her family and/or friends? Are they trustworthy? If yes to both questions, you might want to talk to them about it and make sure they know about it. Unfortunatly, she probably isn't really going to listen to anybody, we as humans are stubborm by nature (I think) and have to learn our own lessons. But considering the danger she seems to be in, I think a talk with the people you know care about her, might not be a bad thing. And that all depends on your rapport with those people. Not an easy situation. Just watch out for yourself first, no matter how difficult that may be. Keep us in the loop, we're weird but we're not stupid (don't mean to generalize, but I think most people would agreed with that).
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Yeah, I know...fairly pathetic, but there it is. I guess it would probably be better to get someone else to help her and keep my distance, but she seems to have alienated pretty much all the mutal friends we shared and now hangs mostly with the guy who beats her. As for her family, I hear they've pretty much written her off. I'm considering calling her mom and seeing if she knows what kind shit her daughter's in and just how deep. Dunno what good it'll do, but at least its something. Anyways, thanks for letting me vent, guys, and thanks for the advice. I know its not quite on topic, so let me get on topic... My Fantasy Woman She should be honest, have a sense of humor, be willing to try new things, prefers the night over the day, doesn't always have to 'get me' but at least be willing to try, willing to say what she wants and doesn't feel the need to play games or expect me to read her mind, believes in compromise, respects things I feel strongly about even if she disagrees, doesn't get off on fighting with me, not emotionally manipulative, actually believes in and practice smonogamy, intelligent, sharp wit, compassionate, caring, loving and be willing to give as much to make a relationship work as me. Oh yeah, knowing how to cook in the kitchen and how to work it in the bedroom (or where ever!) would be a huge bonus... :D
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